How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 04:47
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Don't you think Democrats are so full of it stool softener and an enema couldn't help them?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Can you provide a list of cities named after animals and the animals they were named after?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why is my ex mad I moved on when he dumped me?
Hangs out with loser friends.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do almost all vertebrates have tails, but not apes and frogs?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Are Indian youths conservative or liberal?
That's it for today.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What are some important works of Marcel Proust (novelist)?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What I need from you?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?
Making more friends is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.